Loving me FIRST!

I feel like i have been stuck in this world where everyone else mattered more than me. I put everything and everybody before my own needs. I cared about what other people thought and valued their more opinion than my own. That way of living is in the past. I could care less wat anyone thinks because at the end of the day i have to live for me. Living for me means doing what i want when i want and in a sensable matter of course. When you live for what other people think you arent living at all. You begin to think and act the way the world thinks is rght but what about you and what you belive in? Now some people may live unethically and those are not the people i am aderessing. I am talking to the ones that do things that make their friends and family happy but never really want to do them. They take part in activities they might not want to. Wear the things they feel are what other people would think is right. At this point you arent being you. being you is the only thing you have in this world. So why not take your life into your own hands? Be what you are no matter the thoughts of others. Care only about what you want. Now i am not saying be inconsiderate, however be considerate of what you want in life. Take care of your needs before others. If you are unhappy how can you make the anyone else in your life happy? Put your feelings first and then think about what would be in the others best interest. Living for me is the best decision i have made in a long time. No matter the consequences i will not back out on this. I know what i am and what i am destined to be. Only god can judge me; although cliche i honestly believe thise words and pass them on to you in hopes that you take it in your heart and make right with yourself and the man above so that life isnt what others make it, its what you make it.